Thanks for sharing this . It is hard to be in that spot. I'm not by myself so the solution i found was to transfer all og my money to my wife. Every paychech is transfer to her account. I can keep 100 euros to use on gambling when i feel the need to. And she transfer money to me when i need to buy things for myself or us. The rest after we shared anything else that month is put away om a closed account that we both have to permit a redraw from. It has been a lifesaver for me. No money on account, no money to gamble. And no, she does not give in on give me extra gamble money at all. But that is how it works for me and i' happy about that ( for the most part) . Hope you will find a fix that works for you too.